Creating Boundaries

I am very upset with myself. It is at times like these I wonder how this effects my overall self-trust....?

I am torn apart on the insides because I have compromised my truth and I am finding that the reason it happened was because I have no boundaries in place that I have affirmed.

It is not OK for me to engage in sexual activities with men I do not find attractive
It is not OK with me "paying" for things through flirting
Men do NOT hold all the power; that's the illusion worth dissolving

It is OK and safe for me to say when it is uncomfortable
Leaving it up to the moment to "figure it out" is not healty
When the body is touched, it is seduced, and this impacts the decision-making of the mind (for the moment)

My sensuality is SACRED
Golden question, "Would I ever do that to him?"
And, "What am I gaining from this?"
"What am I really wanting from this relationship?"
I am strong; I don't "need" anybody

I am committing to ending the suffering of not holding strong to my beliefs
I CAN enforce the rules that I have put in place for myself
I take myself seriously first before anyone else
I take my beliefs as firstly more important than other people's beliefs
It is not in my highest good to be "wishy-washy"